Reblog of post with updated resources 🤍.
While there are commonalities in experience, grief’s manifestation is unique to each individual. There is not one other living being who will understand exactly how you feel or the subtleties of your specific connection. No other person; knew your person, your animal companion, or your situation in the exact way you did (and do). They do not know the many nuances that existed between them and you. They cant know what made them uniquely them, you uniquely you, and your connection uniquely yours. It is these nuances of relationship that make this process both complex and sacred. And, this is as it should be.
It is a process that can’t be rushed, at times won’t find comfort, and that must be honoring of you and your important other or situation. Take your time and know in whatever way you need to make sense of your…
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Often the first words we want to express, is to say sorry for your loss, sometimes followed by I understand how you feel(perhaps human nature) and often people do mean well. Sometimes they themselves also experienced grief, yet we cannot understand what the next person is feeling because we are all made up so differently, like you so clearly explained. Thank you for that clear and concise explanation.
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I think so. People most always have a good intention. It is a very difficult experience for all to navigate. Thank you for reading and commenting.🤍
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I also experienced such moments in my life but they could not fill me with venom of hatred. I learned from them.
How I behaved, loved and served others in my life is all mattered actually, as that shaped me what I am today.
A feeling of compassion arises in me seeing such people. They have no option to leave themselves for life!
I am lucky at least only few moments, days or years is what matters me to bear with them. Then I am again free.
It is my life, the other is not at all matters in it leave alone his behaviour, grudges, sabotages etc.
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Thank you for this lovely comment and for sharing your beautiful experience 🤍♥️
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Yes! The biggest part of grief is that no one quite understands exactly what you’ve gone through.
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