“Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside, you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing” (Nye, n.d., lines 20–21).
This month, I have reflected on this line from Naomi Shiahab Nye’s poem “Kindness” and have been reminded of the truth that deep beauty and deep sorrow walk alongside each other. This is true in our individual lives, in our communities, and in our society.
At this time in our history, we are surrounded by information that can stir strong emotions and, at times, lead us toward distrust and separation. Amid the noise, we can lose sight of our shared humanity.
Many are carrying grief, uncertainty, disappointment, fear, or exhaustion. Yet alongside these struggles, remarkable acts of compassion, generosity, and quiet courage exist.
I am deeply aware that compassion rarely develops in the absence of suffering. Rather, it is often born from it. Those who have known loss, heartbreak, vulnerability, or uncertainty are often the very people who offer understanding and grace to others.
In a time when it can be easy to focus on our differences, this poem reminds me of something deeper: our shared humanity. My hope is that it offers you a moment of reflection, comfort, and connection, as it has for me.
I invite you to read the full and beautiful poem at the following link:
“Kindness” by Naomi Shihab Nye
Poetry Foundation: https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/89897/kindness
As always, thank you for reading. I look forward to connecting through your writing and mine.
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Resources and References:
Nye, N. S. (n.d.). Kindness. Poetry Foundation. https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/89897/kindness
National Hotlines:
The National Domestic Violence Helpline: (1-800-799-SAFE 7233)
The National Domestic Violence Chatline.http://www.TheHotLine.org
Treatment Referral Helpline:(1-877-726-4727)
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline:(1-800-273-8255)
The Hotline. (n.d.).Abuse defined. National Domestic Violence Hotline.https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/
Counseling Resources:
Better Help:https://www.betterhelp.com/
Psychology Today:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us
Talk Space:https://www.talkspac
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